SOCIETY TELLS MEN, just take charge and get what you want. Christ said to become humble. We are to decrease if we are to increase. This is true masculinity.
What should we be, what should a woman be looking for? The Apostle Paul said by man came death. As in Adam all die, as in Christ, all shall live. Adam failed to lead. Christ did not fail. Adam chose his will over Gods. Christ gave his way to God.
A man always wants to be the greatest. But we need to be humble. Society thinks men should take what they want in life. Just take charge and get what you want.
Christ said this is not the way it should be. We need to be humble servants. Like a little child, we are to become leadable by God to become an effective man. We have to become humble. We are to decrease if we are to increase.